My second quick tip on becoming an Alpha 5g male extra is that you need to be decisive. Don't be wishy-washy. Women respect men who lay out a path for them to follow. It may sound chauvinistic, but it's true. She really doesn't want to have to decide which movie to go see, or where to have dinner tonight...you're actually making her a bit uncomfortable when you show indecisive behavior. Women need to feel that their man is emotionally strong and able to provide security and protection.